The List

There comes a point in every woman's life where they take in account what makes  them happy, things that cause them heart ache, and what  they want and expect in a mate. This account of things is usually compiled into what is called "the list". More than likely the list is filled with love, money, materialistic goals, looks, accomplishments, character plus etc. But you always have to edit your list, and be realistic! I get we as women want the man we are seeking to have certain accomplishments prior to us but how do you expect him to have so much if you have so little. 

You cannot expect a man to have a job, his own home and a car when you only have a job. These expectations are somewhat unreasonable, why expect more from a man than what you have to offer? Let's talk kids! Most  women will agree that during the age span of  mid 20s to  early 30s, you rarely find a man who does not have any  children. So if you are looking for a man without kids you may not find him. A man who has a child or two  does not make him a bad man he could actually be a great father, a stand up guy and that alone proves to  you what type of man he would be if that situation arrives between the two of you. So don't be so quick to pass on the man with children!

I get that we as women want a certain type of man and I understand the standards we might have for ourselves but those standards should not exceed more then what you are bringing to the table ladies. There are some men who have list too and some of us might not meet up to their requirements either. Just be mindful and realistic when writing down certain things you expect from your future man. I'm not condoning settling, but just saying there's no perfect person, so don't count out the man that doesn't meet all your requirements especially if you don't. You may be missing out,just a little reminder!