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Women aren't the only ones who can relate to this men can also. When your dealing with someone and it seems like they cannot get themselves together for nothing. In the beginning they won you over with their charm, their consistency and  they were in somewhat of a working progress of getting their life together.  However, over the years something within them has changed drastically. Over the years you actually have more to bring to the table then they do, but in the beginning y'all both were on the same playing field. But somewhere between those years of them winning your heart over their progress has decreased or its always something that puts them like 5 steps behind where they just were.  Of course you don't complain because you see them at least trying but for some reason nothing is going right for them. You don't want to leave them because you love them and your never suppose to leave someone you care about when they're down and out. When building something with meaning you're suppose to be there to support them and encourage them during the good and bad times. But how many times are you suppose to stick around wasting your time when they seem like they cannot get themselves together? With their careless and selfish acts do not only affect them they also affect you too. How many times are you suppose to put what you deserve and your needs second because of this person you love is having problems with getting their life together? So are you suppose to stay because of the love you have for them, the potential you see in them or do you just leave because you deserve better? They say only time will tell but they also say once time is spent you'll never get it back. So do you stick it out or do you leave???